Alpha Males My Ass!

Now while I don't profess to be a relationship coach, I am a life coach who delves into the phenomenon of partnering, as I have strong observations about relationships and what it takes to be in one with a decent man.

Unfortunately, the world as gone quite mad and people have become very detached, impersonal, cold, materialistic and manipulative in their approach to dating and marriage.

I am particularly weary of all the stereotypical jargon that women are faced into complying with.

The femininity trope is so overdone that it resembles a burt biscuit!

But it's the alpha male jargon that has me scrunching my face is cringy disbelief!

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What is Alpha Male?

What do you want to take care of that's more important than yourself?

All this Alpha male talk is remedial, a figment most men's imaginations.

You can't be an alpha male living with concern only for your well-being and no one else's!

I don't care how much money he claims to be making, if no one's existence is made better because of his existence, his concern, his provision and his protection, he is just a useless eater looking for some symbolic significance and praise with no sweat equity behind it!

An alpha male takes responsibility for a LOT of people and without him, the tribe lacks protection and direction.

These men work 9-5 jobs they hate, have no ability to employ anyone or maintain even ONE girlfriend they're plucking without financial hardship, yet they want to beat their chest about alpha male status????

Don't listen to selfish, lazy men talk about being alphas, especially the ones living isolated lives while boasting about who they WON'T take care of or how free they are because they've designed a life where they aren't responsible to look after anyone.

These men stink like Gorilla but don't rule the pack like Gorillas do!

It's important to have a man who is capable of taking care of you.

Capable and emotionally wired to feel an obligation to take care of you!

And I'm not talking about a specific dollar amount here, I'm talking about his character!

I'm talking about a man who will get up off his ass and go to work for his family no matter what the wife brings in.

I'm talking about a man who will give you his last to avoid seeing you cry about where your next meal will come from.

I'm talking about a man who doesn't see the act of taking care of you as a burden that yields no value to his life because his value COMES from being the catalyst for a better life.

I'm talking about a man who with provocation, shows up to solve your problems and does so with enthusiasm and a sense of purpose.

A lot of these men are DUBS. They want only to carry purses and stand behind you while watching you withdraw money from your bank account.

Stop giving these men your vagina!

Stop running towards the symbolic relationship called being a girlfriend!

Real men will not be offended by your cautiousness.

Real men are not going to run away when you express that being cared for is what you desire.

And if he sees making your life easier as him being used so that you could have a better life, he is NOT an alpha male because THAT is exactly what alphas come to do!!

"Medicine Woman"

~Salkis Re

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