DON'T BE HUMBLE!

I have been coaching women for many years, and my focus in the last 5 years has been on Ugly Girls who are marginalized, dismissed and worthless because they are not "pretty".

There's a shame that you carry, shame and anger over constantly being disregarded.

But what I've found in working with unattractive women is that there's a battle between doing good and doing evil as well.

Everything we do is weighed against how we will be judged for it, as a result, we carry a tonnage of ineffective self righteousness and wear humility and morality as our armor against the sting of feeling physically inadequate.

We sniff the evil parts of ourselves, but we don't touch for fear of being condemned as an Ugly, uncooperative traitor.

But what are the evil parts really? Everything south of humility would be classified as such.

Why?

Because women who define themselves for themselves are nobody's slave which makes them a bit unpleasant to be around.

We've got this biological burden to always be fair and accommodating, to never tell the truth if it bruises the ego, to do everything within our power to present likability.

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Here's what I think you should do, let go of the idea that humility is your primary mode of transportation.

Arrogance is extreme also, so I'm not talking about displaying narcissistic traits either.

Your sweet spot is to toot your own horn matter of factly and resist getting caught up and overly concerned with how others will respond to you acknowledging your gifts...

The matter-of-fact part is you accepting the truth about your own evaluation of self without any contrived, pretentious fanfare.

Today, I ask you to let go of your embarrassment over promoting yourself. Stop thinking firstly about who'll be offended or critical of you, making everyone aware of your talents, intelligence or creativity.

I am a life coach, artist, writer, poet, healer, comedian, and I display and affirm all those titles without hesitation or concern that someone may express that they are unimpressed with what I do.

I can't eat while being afraid of what people think I should be, do or look like. I will never reach the level of financial freedom I want if I do not put myself out there for those who need what I do!

There is no rescuer coming to save you from the uncomfortable job of self promotion, and by self promotion, I don't just mean professionally but romantically too.

What good are you if no one is helped or inspired by what you're able to do or give?

If you take the humility route, people will continue to simply step all over you!

Self-confidence is not only a muscle you have to train, it's also infectious and draws people towards you who are hoping that some of your free-thinking could rinse the suppression off of their souls!

You Ugly Girl, must show other women how to be FREE! You've got to let them see what it's like to live, love and laugh in spite of not being the standard beauty.

You've got to wash their worry off your skin, scoop their dandruff out your pores, exfoliate the blackheads of their pessimism from your mind!

Stop these muva phukkers from infecting you with their trauma and perpetual fears.

Leave these heffas to their flea market fortune telling and their fake psychic personas used to mask their alcoholism, laziness and regret.

. Nobody is going to stop their momentum for you to play catch up!

"I AM THAT I AM" YOUR GOT DAMN LIFE!!

Y'all make sure to get your coffee mugs today!