These Men and Women Will Clown You!

When I first started the Ugly Girls Club, I didn't know if the premise would be received at all.

I was concerned about coming off offensive to women and did not want to give any impression that I was promoting self deprecation.

I had to sit down and really think about the goal of this club and how best to serve the women I'm offering support to.

I knew that beauty wasn't what I wanted to promote because I did that for more than 20 as a hairstylist and salon owner.

The goal for me is in helping women see past the theatrical part of beauty in order to be immovable while in the presence of those who won't agree with their assessments of their level of attractiveness.

I want you to be OK whether you're seen as beautiful or not!

And why is developing indifference towards beauty a skill you need to know?

Well, let me ask you this: do you want to know how to spot misrepresentions of a person's true intent?

Do you want to know when and by whom you are being targeted to be scammed out your panties or your money?

Do you want to cut through the fluff of other's pretense so that you have an accurate assessment of how much sweat equity you DON'T need to do to get them to respect you and give you what you want?

Do you want a soft life for real?

To live stress-free and abundantly and autonomously, you've got to adopt RADICAL self honesty about how you look!

And after you answer those questions, you've got to decide if you are going to flog yourself for not being perfect or lean into oddities while perched up like an eagle living above the fray.

Biases exists in all of us.

We have entrenched ideas about beauty, value, love or money that are near impossible to break.

But I have always said that a belief that doesn't make you stronger, healthier, wealthier, more confident or happier MUST BE SMASHED to smithereens!

You have rise up like a Phoenix from the ashes and soar away from any concept, belief, trope, bias or propaganda that has pulled you into a cage of comfortable helplessness.

Beauty is fun but its a got damn trap!

Why? Because unlike your intelligence, it depreciates in value with time.

And it doesn't take ten years for that depreciation to start happening either!

We are caged by the simple invention of a mirror.

The pretentious amongst us will say that they practice beautification for themselves because they don't care what anyone else thinks.

But I say that you there's no way to know how you look without a mirror which means that you can't see yourself but you want to alter what other people see.

And that's fine, as long as you don't make it beauty philosophical thing.

It's to aid in arousal; that's it!

After that, there's nothing left for it to be. It's not kind.

It's not virtuous.

It's not loving.

It's not intelligent.

YET YOU ARE those things in spite of how you might look!

Beauty solves issues of socializing with others, it can even make people believers in the lies you tell, but it can't slip.

Not for one f'ing second can you show even a smidgen of humaness lest you lose their respect.

And they might respect you because they are jealous of you, and if they are jealous of you, they've BEEN looking for your Achilles heal!

So listen, I want you all who read this post to share your thoughts in the comments.

P.S. Patreon is getting a makeover and along with that, a price change to manage admin stuff and to bring you new, Lazer focused content👉🏿 as well as quality members. Hope you hold on cause this ride is about to GOOD!

Hug and Love,

~Salkis