They Think You're Dumb!

Have you been played close by people who thought you weren't that perceptive?

Annoying, right?

Especially when you have to stomach that dismissive energy from people you KNOW are not that emotionally or intellectually intelligent.

But I implore you to resist the urge to verbally fight with them.

I know, I know, you want to get your lick back by slapping them in the face with a fist full of dogshyte, but that's never the smarter way to handle aggression.

Let me tell you about the power of silence, again.

It levels the playing field IMMEDIATELY.

It makes them wonder if they've said something more stupider and the stupid they were trying to make you think you are!

Do not respond in a concerning way.

What's a concerning way?

Rants

Anger

Debates

Apology

Lengthy Responses

ASKING FOLLOW UP QUESTIONS

You want to know why silence is so f'ing brilliant? Its gold manna because it also gives you time to assess the best course of action.

A level head may reveal that you are not really upset about what was said to you.

A level head may even reveal that some of their criticism has merit.

"Bind yuh belly!" As my Granny often said..

What does that phrase mean? It means in so many words to shut the hell up and handle yuh business!

Silence forces us to take a breath.

It allows us to not saying anything we have to later apologize for. I HATE HAVING TO APOLOGIZE SO I SHUT MY GOT DAMN MOUTH UNTIL IM SURE OF WHAT I WANT TO SAY...

Some of you have challenges with impulsiveness of the mouth. That impulsivity is a sign that you are living defensively, waiting for the next blow to hit while never being able to enjoy the moment.

That SUCKS ELEPHANT BALLS SACKS!!

You want to checkmate their ass???

Close your piehole.

Go in a corner and bite your lip.

Take a shyte if your bowels get loose like mine does when I'm angry.

Then come up with a comeback that is well thought out and as neutral as possible.

Don't be afraid to acknowledge a mistake or flaw that someone points out to you.

The stress of pretending not to agree will just drain your energy.

You can divide criticism in what is true and what is false.

If a person says for example:

"I think the art you create represents so much sadness, and people prefer more lively, happy subjects to view. (This actually happened to me when I did a gallery showing for my artwork some years back..)

My response was: "Yes! (leaning in) I agree that the work I chose to present in this showing depicts melancholy. (Pausing to acknowledge my agreement with his perception) I think sadness doesn't have to be an emotion we need to ignore.

The best expressions of love are demonstrated through sadness and tears.. Its a raw emotion. One that children have not yet learned how to hide very well..

And then he nodded in agreement after standing there trying to decide if he would offer a counter argument. The win would've been a hollow one because I already agreed with his criticism...

Now, of course my first instinct was to say: Get The F&* Outa Here! But I held my status in place..

People want to feel important. WE ALL DO!!

Let them feel that way!

Just remember that the best feel important is to be important. That being said, if a person intends to bypass being useful for being seen, you know that they are weak-minded and looking for a sense of worthiness through attempting to make you second guess your value.

We really don't have time for the bullshyte, UGC but the cow dung prevails anyway..

Want More Life Skills?

I will being doing a live session June 29th for VIP Patreon members only where I'll be being talking with a UGC member about what's causing her life goal progress to as she so graciously agreed to have a live session with club members looking on in support.. You will learn a lot about energy healing in this one and how to accurately self assess in order to be the change you want to see.

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