What is Love?
- Salkis Re
- Dec 12, 2020
- 1 min read
Love is more about ownership than it is about care. Possession calms one's anxiety and fear of loss.
Titles help to soothe any trepidations surrounding abandonment.
And as in the garden when God told Adam to name the animals, whatever you name, you get to "Claim" dominion over.
To not need anyone is blessing, but to not be needed by anyone is a curse..
And your life is fight to balance the two...
Ground yourself to stabilize your emotions. Resist the temptation to ponder idealism in other people, and accept that they will, at the very least, lie as often as you do..
The peace you are looking for is behind the veil you wear to make others feel confident and secure within themselves...
Freedom is the goal though.
"The Ugly Girls Ambassador"
~Salkis Re
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