You Don't Need To Improve Your Looks!
- Salkis Re
- Apr 1, 2021
- 1 min read
Do you have to "Be" what you are looking for in another person?
No.
You have to learn how to convince another person that they need what you have to offer.
And men do this supremely well.
All day and twice on Sunday, men spin narratives to women just like you about how what he lacks or what he isn't willing to do, is somehow not what you actually need anyway.
He sells you on settling for what he is prepared to offer and if he notices your resistance to his campaign, he'll just throw in a promise or two (a deferred promise) to coax you into sustaining your enthusiasm for a relationship that won't meet your needs from the start.
This is how men who are out of their league sell themselves to women, and women believe it because the verbal expression of concern coupled with sexual pleasure is the recipe that placeholders and Dusty lovers are made of.
The key to never being manipulated again is simply in knowing that you don't need to become anything to be in alignment with what you require.
Your requirements are simply your "core values" and your core values don't change if you lose your job, or you get sick, or you gain weight.
Your core values are unconditional!! So move that way and don't let anyone shame you into thinking that you are operating unrealistically because your values aren't in alignment with what they think you deserve..
"The Ugly Girls Ambassador"
~Salkis Re
P.S. I'd love for you to Leave a Comment and tell me what you think
I agree that people should move on their core values because if used properly can be powerfully unchanging and used to move mountains or have mountains move around them. I do believe that when a person allows themselves to be manipulated their core values are changed to benefit the one who wants to take from them.
Yes this is very. I spent years living off of promises! I remember my ex would say ”am trying “ what you want me to do rob a bank. SMH ! he was talking about helping me with bills. Meanwhile the years pasted and the children came. I spent many years in shame because I look back and see how foolish I was and others helped me continue that feeling This journey am on has been painful I thank God I found your channel. Thank you. ❤️
You've been on fire this past week with the blog posts Ms. Salkis. Thank you for your effort,wisdom and guidance. You stay on point. You're appreciated.