Life is too short to be worried about anything you have no control over. And the key to happiness is within letting go of trying to control people.
It's an energy drain, a sickness really, to obsess about manipulating others when the best person to try to control would be yourself.
Half this year is almost complete; what has changed significantly for you so far?
Are you in better health?
I left out better money although it is a part of this list too.
But I think that the mindset part almost always takes care of the money part of this thing called poverty mindset.
You are afraid.
I get it!
I'm afraid too.
But this difference between you and me is that I'm crystal clear on what could destroy my life and what cannot.
You want to know how to control people?
I do too!
But what good is that information if you are a coward?
If you don't know how to stand up for yourself?
If you think you deserve to be mishandled and mistreated because of things like looks or status?
A better goal to reach for is self discipline.
Like get up and wash your butt
and floss your teeth
and study for the test
and take your meds and whatever else NEEDS to be done on a daily basis to improve your quality of life.
Let me tell you something, information BLINDS us!
The more you know, the more you realize that you don't know.
The more info you have, the more complicated decision making becomes.
What I've come to realize is that simplification is key to contentment and prosperity.
Overthinking creates a hell of our own making.
Indecisiveness comes from having too many choices.
Insecurity comes from trying to control what others think of you.
What do you want to do with your life?
What do you want to be known for?
What is your legacy?
My legacy is to show unattractive women that you don't need to look good in order to be brave, purposeful and content with your life.
Unattractive women need to step away from playing games we cannot win and focus on building roads for their own lane!
What does that look like for us?
It looks like you are being clear on what is right or wrong for you.
It looks like making peace with your fears and understanding that fear never stops which means you do that thing you fear anyway.
It means that you do not agree with anyone to be liked because chances are they won't see a reason to like you until you don't give a fuk about them!
Make peace with your bathroom mirror and understand that you are only alive for a short time. Don't let people's opinions steal time away from you.
Conformity doesn't work for aliens..
You are an alien.
Then go forth and create your won world.
"The Ugly Girls Ambassador"